Wednesday, June 4, 2014

How to Prevent People from Hating You on LinkedIn

We’ve all been there, you’ve signed into your LinkedIn profile and they’ve done it again – nailed you with another mind teaser post on your home page. Like other serious LinkedIn members, your intention is to use LinkedIn to network, not procrastinate! Why can’t others do the same?

If you want to make sure you’re not one of those irritating participants on LinkedIn, here are some pointers that will add value rather than detract so that you can proactively develop relationships and grow your connections – after all isn’t that your intention for being on LinkedIn in the first place?

1)   Build Relationships Before Asking For Favors: Don’t make assumptions – don’t ask people for favors if they barely know you. Get to know them first before making any requests. For example, assuming someone will provide you with a reference to one of their high level, valued connections just because they are connected to you, is the quickest way to get unlinked. Remember, the number one rule for networking is to focus on the other person’s needs and find out how you can help them. Be sure to offer a favor before you ask for a favor.

2)   Choose Groups Wisely: Connecting with communities of people with similar interests is an easy way to engage with others. If you’re looking for a job or to advance your career this is particularly relevant as it’s important to demonstrate your expertise and knowledge to others within discussions. If you participate in groups unrelated to your background or experience, people may not give credence to your comments or consider you a credible source.

3)   Don’t Be a Lurker: Participate in groups and provide quality posts about current info. You never know when the CEO is looking at your comments – and don’t post fluff such as teasers or word games.

4)   Don’t use LinkedIn’s pre-made templates when reaching out to people to connect: Customize your messages to others. By doing so, it shows you care. A generic message will not get you noticed!

5)   Don’t Forget Your Picture and Make it the Right Picture: People like to know who they are talking to. It’s also important to look professional in order to make a great impression.  (No pictures with your dog or out by the pool!)

6)   Give Thoughtful Recommendations/Endorsements: only endorse people you know – not your entire connection list. Blind endorsements can appear disingenuous and given for self-promotion.


7)   Show Your Personal Side: Don’t just talk about your work! Provide a fun fact about your personal interests or make note of your hobbies. Don’t be afraid to allow people to get to know the REAL you.